Aligned | Therapeutic Coaching for Relational Clarity and Self-trust | Andrea Hoerandner

For relationships that feel alive. With yourself. With others. At work.

German-Speaking Therapist in Copenhagen

Grounded, depth-oriented and relational support for German speakers living in Denmark.

Therapy & coaching for German speakers who want clarity, grounding, and emotional stability.

Moving to Denmark can expand your life — but emotionally,
it can also unsettle it.
Many German-speaking expats describe a very specific experience:

“I function well, but I don’t feel like myself.”
“I miss emotional depth — conversations feel flatter here.”
“I can’t express myself fully in English or Danish.”
“I feel more alone inside than I expected.”

If this resonates, you’re not alone.

I offer therapy and coaching in German online and in-person, tailored for the emotional realities of life in Denmark. A safe, grounded space where you can speak in the language that carries your emotions, your history, and your depth.

Why emotional support in your mother tongue matters abroad

Even if you speak English fluently, emotional nuance often lives in your mother tongue.

German-speaking clients often tell me:

  • “I can explain myself in English, but I can’t feel myself.”

  • “I need someone who understands German relational patterns.”

  • “I don’t have to translate my emotions here.”

  • “It’s a relief not to perform or simplify.”

Living abroad can activate old patterns:

  • over-responsibility

  • emotional shutdown

  • self-abandonment

  • trying to “adapt” at the cost of yourself

  • loneliness masked by independence

You may find yourself:

  • overthinking instead of sensing

  • performing “being fine”

  • struggling to communicate emotional nuance

  • missing depth in friendships or relationships

  • carrying more responsibility than you can name

This isn’t weakness. It’s the natural strain of adaptation —
and you don’t have to navigate it alone.

The way we relate shapes the way we live.

The way we relate shapes the way we live.

Who I support

I work with German-speaking expats navigating:

  • emotional overwhelm or quiet burnout

  • stress from adaptation and workplace pressure

  • relationship patterns and attachment wounds

  • tension, shutdown, numbness, overthinking

  • identity shifts after relocation

  • difficulty expressing emotions in English

  • loss of aliveness, joy, or personal grounding

  • communication challenges at work or home

You don’t need a diagnosis.
You just need a place where your depth is understood.

Support that meets you where you are —
especially in moments that matter

Let’s explore how we can work together.

Discover my offerings

My approach

Not clinical. Not surface-level coaching.
A grounded, relational, body-aware process that meets you where you are.

I draw from:

  • Psychotherapy (MPF) — emotional depth with clarity

  • CoreEvolution® & somatic integration — the body as intelligence

  • mindfulness & presence-based work

  • systemic coaching & relational intelligence

  • embodied leadership tools

Together, we work at the intersections of:

emotion · body · relationship · meaning · identity

So you can live from clarity, not contraction.

How sessions work

In-person or online (video) — so you can join from anywhere in Denmark
English (or mixed EN/DE if you prefer)
Confidential
Calm, clear, emotionally grounded

Session formats include

  • Individual therapeutic coaching

  • Support during transitions (career, relocation, relationships, leadership)

  • Emotional clarity sessions

  • Longer-term integration work

If you’re a German speaker feeling overwhelmed, numb,
or disconnected — it’s not a failure.

It’s a sign you need a grounded space that speaks your language.

You can come home to yourself, even far from home.

Who this work is for

People, who:

  • want to feel like themselves again

  • are tired of coping and ready for clarity

  • carry a lot (emotionally, professionally, relationally)

  • want to lead from presence, not pressure

  • want to break old patterns

  • want to reconnect with aliveness, intuition, and self-trust

  • want a grounded, intelligent space to be fully honest

Come home to yourself -
So your relationships can breathe.
So your work feels aligned.
So you don’t have to hold it all together alone.

Start with a conversation
Andrea Hoerandner | Therapeutic Coaching - Aligned. A woman with shoulder-length hair, wearing a black sweater and leather pants, sitting on a white chair against an orange background.

Hi, I’m Andrea Hörandner, psychotherapist (MPF), coach,
and the human behind Aligned.

I’ve spent over a decade supporting people through complex emotional landscapes — from expat life to leadership roles to relational patterns that run deep.
Clients describe me as:

clear · warm · grounding · precise · deeply attuned

Languages: German & English
Format: In-person, online, confidential, flexible
Specialising in: clarity, emotional maturity, relationships, embodied presence, expat transitions

How we begin

You’re welcome to book a short initial call:

Or you can write me directly: andrea@a-l-i-g-n-e-d.com

I’d be honoured to support you in finding more clarity, inner ground, and coherence — here in Copenhagen or wherever you are.

Let's talk

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