Emotional Blockages: What They Are and How the Body Stores Them
Emotional blockages aren’t stuck feelings — they’re incomplete survival responses stored in the body. When emotions can’t move, the nervous system holds the tension, the bracing, and the unfinished impulse. This article explains how the body stores what the mind can’t process, and how to gently release emotional blockages through safety, sensation, and somatic awareness.
Burnout vs Emotional Burnout — And Why the Difference Matters
Burnout is about doing too much — but emotional burnout is about holding too much. This Deep Dive explores why emotional burnout feels like numbness, disconnection, and depletion, and why rest alone doesn’t fix it. A grounded, somatic guide to understanding how the body stores emotional overload — and how to recover with nervous system safety, clarity, and support.
Relational Intelligence: The Skill Every Employee Needs Now
Relational intelligence is no longer just a leadership skill — it’s essential for every employee in today’s fast-paced, hybrid workplace. This article explores how relational intelligence helps teams communicate clearly, navigate conflict, regulate under stress, and build trust in real organisational conditions. A grounded, practical guide to the human skill that makes modern work possible.
Emotional Maturity: What It Actually Looks Like at Work
Emotional maturity at work isn’t politeness — it’s presence. This article explores what emotional maturity truly looks like in leadership and team dynamics: regulating before responding, setting clear boundaries, holding tension without collapsing, and communicating from groundedness. A deep, embodied guide for professionals and leaders who want to cultivate clarity, relational intelligence, and psychological safety.
Why You Can Be Self-Aware and Still Choose the Wrong Relationship
You can know your patterns, understand your attachment style, and still choose someone who isn’t right for you. This article explores why self-awareness alone can’t override old nervous system patterns — and how the body, not the mind, often decides who we feel drawn to. A grounded, compassionate guide for anyone ready to shift from familiar dynamics to aligned relationships.
Why Clarity Feels Scary When You’ve Lived in Adaptation
Clarity feels empowering — until you’ve spent years living in adaptation. Then it can feel overwhelming, vulnerable, even unsafe. This article explores why your nervous system may fear truth, even when your mind wants it, and how to rebuild the inner safety needed to speak clearly and choose authentically. A gentle guide for anyone shifting from people-pleasing into alignment.
How Therapeutic Coaching Works Online — and What Makes It Safe
Most of us think healing requires a room, a couch, and a clock ticking quietly in the background. But the truth is — the real work doesn’t begin when you enter an office.
It begins when you decide to arrive in yourself.
Why I Offer Therapeutic Coaching — And What Makes It Different
Therapeutic coaching is a grounded, emotionally intelligent space to help you reconnect with who you are — especially when you've spent years adapting, overfunctioning, or getting stuck in patterns that no longer serve you.
Living Aligned: The Bridge Between Self-Concept and Core Essence
We all carry an image of who we are — our self-concept. It’s the mental map shaped by upbringing, experiences, successes, and setbacks. It helps us function, relate, and achieve.
Safety First, Story Later: Why Going Slow in Coaching or Therapy Builds Real Trust
You don’t have to share everything in the first session. Here's why safety, pacing, and trust are more powerful than early disclosure — especially when healing runs deep.
Anxiety Isn’t the Enemy — It’s a Messenger from the Core
Anxiety isn’t something to eliminate — it’s something to listen to. This is a new way of relating to your patterns, your body, and your energy.
When Pain Protects Itself by Controlling Others: On Narcissistic Traits and Energetic Clarity
Some people survive by controlling those around them. Here’s how to recognise narcissistic traits as protective patterns — and why seeing clearly is the first act of self-trust.
Should I Choose a Psychologist, a Psychotherapist — or a Coach?
Not all support is the same. This guide explores the key differences between psychologists, psychotherapists, and therapeutic coaches — and how to choose the approach that aligns with what you need right now.
What to Expect in Your First Session — And Why Clarity Starts With Collaboration
Curious about starting coaching? Here’s what to expect in your first Aligned session — and why real change begins with a grounded, collaborative space.
From Inner Critic to Inner Ally: How to Transform Negative Self-Talk
Negative self-talk is more than just an occasional harsh inner voice; it can significantly affect mental health and impede personal growth. It often originates from internalized beliefs and past experiences, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. Over time, this can lead to anxiety, depression, and a diminished sense of self-worth.
From Guarded to Genuine: How Embracing Vulnerability Creates Deeper Connections and Real Growth
Imagine standing at the edge of a diving board, heart pounding, as you gather the courage to leap into the unknown. Vulnerability can feel just like that—intimidating yet exhilarating. It invites us to open up, expose our true selves, and take the plunge into deeper connections and personal growth.
Finding Inner Harmony: How to Create Personal Coherence in a Busy World
Picture this: you're standing in front of a cluttered closet, feeling just as disorganized internally. Life can often feel like a jumble of mismatched clothes—disjointed and overwhelming. This is where the quest for coherence comes in, helping you align your inner world with clarity and purpose.
Mastering the Storm: Using the RAIN Method to Move Through Overwhelm
Are you feeling like life's demands are piling up and you’re struggling to find a moment of peace, you're not alone. Overwhelm can feel like a constant presence, but by understanding its roots and how it surfaces, we can better manage it. Let’s explore the nature of overwhelm and how the RAIN approach can offer relief.
Finding Home: How to Create Belonging in Your Life — Wherever You Are
Belonging is a profound emotional experience that fulfills our essential need for connection and acceptance. It encapsulates the feeling of being seen, understood, and valued within a community, playing a crucial role in our mental well-being by providing a sense of identity and support.
Reflecting on moments when we've felt a strong sense of belonging helps us understand what contributes to those feelings, whether they are tied to our home, community, or the places we cherish. By recognizing the importance of belonging, we can actively seek and nurture relationships that bring meaning and support to our lives.
Embracing Joy and Pleasure: The Path to a Happier, Healthier Life
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, it's easy to overlook the importance of joy and pleasure. Yet, these two elements are fundamental to our mental well-being.
While pleasure often comes from external experiences that bring us immediate happiness, joy is a deeper, more enduring state of contentment that arises from within. Both contribute significantly to our overall sense of fulfillment, and understanding how to cultivate them can lead to a healthier, happier life.